By: Ryan Hartwig (@RyanHartwig)
GreenBayPhoenix.com
GREEN BAY,
Wis. (GreenBayPhoenix.com) - Haley Oelke (Mosinee, Wis.) was just 13
years old when her older sister Rebecca passed away unexpectedly in 2004. Barely
a teenager at the time, Oelke admits she had a hard time dealing with the loss,
keeping her feelings inside and not knowing if what she was going through was
normal.
Now a senior captain on the Green Bay volleyball team,
Oelke recently called on her own experiences, as well as what she has learned as
a psychology major at UW-Green Bay, to benefit similar children at Camp Lloyd -
a week-long day camp for kids who are grieving the death of a loved one.
"Going through what I went through with my sister
definitely changed my perspective on life a lot," Oelke said. "It made me want
to help children who are going through that type of experience and let them
know that their feelings are normal, that it's OK to keep living your life and
show them that you can find strength in the loss of a loved one."
To watch a video about Oelke's experience at Camp
Lloyd, click
here.
Camp Lloyd, which was started by UW-Green Bay
professor Dr. Illene Cupit seven years ago, was held June 18-22 at the Mauthe
Center on the UW-Green Bay campus. Oelke, along with the rest of the Camp Lloyd
"buddies", had to go through extensive training sessions to work at the camp, as
well as take Cupit's Death, Dying and Loss course, keep journal entries and
write a 15-20 page paper about the experience.
This year's camp was filled with fun activities such
as arts and crafts, music, swimming, hiking, kayaking, relay races, scavenger
hunts and trips to the zoo. The campers, ages seven to 14, also worked with
Oelke and the other trained students, as well as Camp Lloyd's profession grief
counselors to explore their feelings and support one another.
For additional information about Camp Lloyd, call
920-465-2703 or visit www.uwgb.edu/camplloyd.
PHOENIX AT CAMP LLOYD: Oelke was not the only Phoenix student-athlete serving as a buddy at Camp Lloyd 2012, as cross country runner Areanna Lakowske (Sparta, Wis.) participated for the second straight year.
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